and as such no one has the right to prevent it from gays. gays are equal citizens and should not suffer any discrimination.

...is saying they have to do it at your church, where the definition of marriage may only between a man and a woman. The definition of marriage is simply: a social union or legal contract between people that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found.

Marriage under God is between one man and one woman. having your own ways- fine. but dont called it marriage and don't force us to acknowledge that as "marriage" also - read this: